Multiple Wives in the Bible: What Do the Scriptures Teach?
Introduction
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Polygyny—the marriage of one man to multiple wives—is a subject that generates considerable debate among believers. Modern readers often assume that the Bible teaches universal monogamy. However, throughout the Scriptures many faithful men had multiple wives, and the Law of Moses regulated the practice rather than prohibiting it.
From Abraham and Jacob to David, the biblical record contains numerous examples of polygynous households. Furthermore, no command in the Law explicitly forbids a man from taking more than one wife. The New Testament likewise contains no direct command abolishing the practice.
This study examines the biblical evidence concerning polygyny and addresses its relationship to later Roman and church traditions.
Marriage in the Beginning
The first marriage recorded in Scripture involved one man and one woman.
Genesis 2:24
"Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."
This passage establishes the foundation of marriage but does not expressly limit all future marriages to one wife.
Throughout the rest of Scripture, faithful men are found with multiple wives without receiving condemnation solely for that fact.
The Patriarchs Practiced Polygyny
Abraham
Abraham had Sarah and later took Hagar.
Genesis 16:3
"And Sarai Abram's wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian... and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife."
Later Abraham also took Keturah.
Genesis 25:1
"Then again Abraham took a wife, and her name was Keturah."
Jacob
Jacob married Leah and Rachel.
Genesis 29:28
"And he gave him Rachel his daughter to wife also."
Jacob also fathered children through Bilhah and Zilpah.
These marriages produced the twelve tribes of Israel.
The Law of Moses Regulated Polygyny
The Torah contains laws governing households with multiple wives.
Equal Treatment of Wives
Exodus 21:10
"If he take him another wife; her food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish."
The Law does not prohibit a second wife; instead, it requires the husband to continue providing for the first wife.
Inheritance Rights
Deuteronomy 21:15-17
"If a man have two wives, one beloved, and another hated..."
The Law regulates inheritance when a man has multiple wives and children.
Again, the practice is regulated rather than forbidden.
Kings and Multiple Wives
Several kings of Israel had multiple wives.
David
The Lord spoke through Nathan:
2 Samuel 12:8
"And I gave thee thy master's house, and thy master's wives into thy bosom..."
David's sins involving Bathsheba and Uriah were condemned, but Scripture never condemns him merely for having multiple wives.
Solomon
Solomon possessed many wives.
1 Kings 11:3
"And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines."
The problem identified by Scripture was not the number of wives itself but that many of them turned his heart toward idolatry.
1 Kings 11:4
"His wives turned away his heart after other gods."
Restrictions on Kings
The Law did place limits upon kings.
Deuteronomy 17:17
"Neither shall he multiply wives to himself, that his heart turn not away."
This passage does not prohibit more than one wife but warns against excessive accumulation of wives that could lead to corruption.
Polygyny in the Time of Christ
By the first century, polygyny still existed among some Israelite communities.
When Christ discussed marriage, He quoted Genesis.
Matthew 19:4-6
"They twain shall be one flesh."
Christ emphasized the permanence of marriage and condemned unlawful divorce.
However, He never issued a direct command forbidding a man from having multiple wives.
The debates recorded in the Gospels concern divorce rather than polygyny.
The Parable of the Ten Virgins
One passage often discussed is the Parable of the Ten Virgins.
Matthew 25:1
"Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom."
In the parable, a single bridegroom is associated with ten virgins awaiting his arrival.
The primary purpose of the parable is spiritual preparedness rather than marriage law. Nevertheless, some interpreters note that Christ chose imagery familiar to His audience and did not portray the scenario as strange or unlawful.
The Apostolic Writings
Certain passages concerning elders and overseers are frequently cited.
1 Timothy 3:2
"A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife."
Titus 1:6
"If any be blameless, the husband of one wife."
Many scholars understand these verses as qualifications for church leadership rather than universal marriage laws for all believers.
Even if interpreted strictly, these passages address bishops and elders, not the entire congregation.
Roman Influence and Later Restrictions
As Christianity spread through the Roman Empire, Roman legal traditions increasingly shaped marriage practices.
Roman society generally favored monogamous civil marriage. Over time, church leaders adopted and reinforced monogamous norms.
By the later imperial period, Roman and ecclesiastical regulations largely prohibited legal polygyny throughout territories under their control.
As a result, many believers came to view monogamy as the only acceptable form of marriage, even though Scripture itself contains numerous examples of lawful polygynous households.
Important Distinctions
The Scriptures condemn:
Adultery (Exodus 20:14)
Fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18)
Incest (Leviticus 18)
Homosexual acts (Leviticus 18:22)
Bestiality (Leviticus 18:23)
Taking another man's wife (Leviticus 20:10)
However, there is no verse in the Law of Moses that explicitly states:
"A man shall not have more than one wife."
Instead, the Law regulates the practice when it occurs.
Conclusion
Throughout the Scriptures, many righteous men—including Abraham, Jacob, and David—had multiple wives. The Law of Moses established regulations governing such households but did not prohibit them. Christ's teachings focused primarily on faithfulness, covenant, and divorce rather than on abolishing polygyny.
While later Roman and ecclesiastical traditions generally adopted monogamy as the legal standard, the biblical record itself contains numerous examples of polygyny and laws regulating its practice. Any study of the subject must therefore distinguish between what Scripture explicitly teaches and what later religious or civil traditions established.
